I am not a villain

Every time we confront a challenging situation or a bad day, we generally start blaming people who caused such problems intentionally or unintentionally. This happens because of numerous reasons.

One of them that comes first in mind is the mind set. Due to this, a few people misunderstand and misinterpret the talks which were actually not said with any wrong thought. Not just talks but also gestures.

 
I went for a trip to Vaishno Devi to find a piece of peace. It was a beautiful trip. I was surrounded by wonderful hills blurred with the clouds in the sky, soothing breeze, a little chilly weather and some unknown travellers in the group. It was such an amazing experience that I thought to write about it with full description but somehow I changed my mind.

Today I am returning to my home after capturing some beautiful clicks of nature but something is missing; something which is hindering the beauty of nature. It is that little piece of my peace that just slipped off my hands.

How do small things matter so much to us? We cannot make out what is bothering others and when we understand, it gets too late.

The seat of the bus was the matter that was bothering a pretty young lady. Actually, I sat on the seat where she might have sat when we were coming to Vaishno Devi. I think this had disturbed her a lot as I observed a drastic change in her attitude, her reactions to things and talks etc. Yes, it is her choice to stay like that or maybe I am being judgemental.

But it came to my mind because I felt that it was my mistake and of course I didn't do it intentionally. After all, I am not a villain and I don't ever want to be. How much we try, sometimes, we are not able to rectify some situations. That day no words passed between us but a single and strange glimpse of each other.

I would have tried to talk to her. But I believe that was not the right time to do so. So, I diverted my mind and took out my earphones to listen to some soft music and songs, watched a movie, delighted my eyes with beautiful views of nature, took a nap and tried to just ignore what has happened.

I think we should not give attention to such small issues. These rise up like molten lava and burst out like a volcano someday which directly or indirectly affect our life and that of the people related to us. Such circumstances can be avoided either by discussing & clearing on the spot or by simply ignoring. Whether life is short or far too long, we should love and live it without any regrets or complaints or misunderstandings. 

Stay happy, enjoy every single moment whether you have the resources or not. Happiness is the only solution to avoid any issue that can become an unavoidable situation.